jaded - adj. Worn out; wearied
hope - v. To wish for something with expectation of its fulfillment
I freely admit I am jaded, tired, worn out and wearied after the years of striving against the idiocy, the refusal to see the obvious that lies outside the comfortable, canalized ways of thought.
I am not speaking merely of politics on the national scale, but also of the petty politics within corporations, the insignificant battles between individuals that accomplish nothing more than feeding individual egos, for in the end it is all the same, egos striving for their own enhancement, whether on a small scale or large, whether within a company or on a national stage.
Of the seven deadly sins, vanity (aka PRIDE) is that which inflicts the most damage upon others.
In the last twenty years, I have become jaded to an extent that the idealist I was twenty years ago would not recognize.
Yet, I still choose hope.
In the past weeks, I have been struggling with something I regard as fundamental.
I believe that societies should police themselves, they should not appeal to some governmental agency to make things “fair”.
Yet, I also do not believe in “blogwars”, especially after having participated in a few, much to my regret in retrospect.
So, how does one point out bad behavior without getting involved in a blogwar?
I am still struggling with this question.
The case in point:
A relatively recent post at Protein Wisdom by Jeff Goldstein regarding a post by Joe Gandelman at his own weblog, The Moderate Voice (full disclosure, I am one of the people allowed to post at The Moderate Voice). The post by Goldstein includes:
I have no doubt that, were my site to be placed into one of Mr Gandelman’s categories, I’d be lumped in with the “Good Jobbers�—those who see a conspiracy of media perfidy which is responsible for laying blame at the door of the feds. But such is incidental, ultimately, to whether or not the feds did in fact do a good job by the standards of federal response—and that, as I’ve taken great pains to point out over the last week or so—has hardly been determined either way, and has been the focus of many of my posts.
Consequently, I took the opportunity to ask Joe, in his comments, why there is no category available to those of us who really do just want the truth - those who are unwilling to conclude until all the facts are in—and so are unwilling to “knowingly� impute to FEMA failures (beyond typical bureaucratic snafus) until such time as substantial federal response failures are actually proven?
And the reason is clear: Mr Gandelman has made up his mind—and being independent of mind and non-partisan of heart commits one, in his assessment, to divvying out blame in equal shares like one distributes cubes of birthday cake—which means that his meta-analysis is just as flawed as the various analyses he aims to summarize.
For my part, I simply will not place blame until I’m convinced blame has been earned. Which is not to say that I haven’t already drawn several conclusions—I have; but rather to note that, from my perspective at least, the investigation in ongoing. And that scapegoating because you think yourself “fair� and like to affirm your moderate, independent bona fides is just as wrong as scapegoating because you are a Machiavellian hyperpartisan looking to use a pre-figured narrative to score political points against your ideological enemies.
As far as this goes, it is a reasonable disagreement with what Joe Gandelman has posted on his weblog. However, the comments to the post at Protein Wisdom venture into the realm of what any reasonable person would call unacceptable. To wit (copied directly from the comments of the post at Protein Wisdom):
Is that Joe “GAY PORN COCK OF LIES!� Gandelman?
Fuck him. Not literally, of course.
Unless you like that kind of thing, that is. Wouldn’t want to be non-inclusive.
Posted by mojo | permalink
on 09/13 at 12:22 PM
Don’t you have to be a moderate to fuck a moderate? Isn’t there some type of law that says you can’t have sex with someone of another political pursuasion?
Unless it is some type of metaphorical ass fucking.
tw:except, Except when?
Posted by rls | permalink
on 09/13 at 01:03 PM
(Note that “Mojo” didn’t bother leaving a valid email address…)
I need someone to explain to me exactly how either of these comments are productive in any sense of the word.
I originally had intended to post this under the title of “Cleaning your own house first”, directed at those on the right-wing who take joy in pointing out the excesses of the idiotic left on the Daily Kos or the Democratic Underground, but ultimately I do not want to dilute the bad behavior by making it partisan.
This type of behavior is wrong, no matter towards whom it is directed.
In the past, I have written posts critical of those whom I disagreed with; however, when the comments became a “bash-fest”, long before they reached the depths of the comments in Protein Wisdom towards Joe Gandelman, I stopped them in their tracks with a strong statement that although I disagreed with what was said by the blogger referenced I did NOT intend my post to become a venue to personally insult the blogger with whom I disagreed.
Jeff Goldstein disagreed with what Joe Gandelman wrote. That in itself is fine. However, Jeff Goldstein provided a forum for freely insulting the person of Joe Gandelman and did NOT choose to intervene when the commenters to his weblog stepped out of line.
For that, Jeff Goldstein should be noted as himself stepping out of line.
So here I sit, trying to figure out how to point this out without starting a blogwar, yet not waiting so long that it is irrelevant.
I fear that I have hesitated too long.
The right-wing likes to talk about “personal responsibility”.
Show me that choosing hope is not idiotic.
Here is an opportunity to step up to the plate and show that personal responsibility means something.
If you are unwilling to do so, then don’t post on your weblogs how the “lefties” are so evil for their asinine behavior.
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UPDATE: Jeff Goldstein has posted his view in the comments to this post, so please read them.
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